One strike – such as a mirror shot or airbrushed selfie – and you’re out.
So we asked some online dating experts for help on making the best first impression.
There are other ways to show you have a social life than including a photo of you with all your friends, especially if you look less attractive in comparison.
According to a study by the dating app Zoosk, having someone else in your photo decreases your chances of being contacted by 42
If you must show yourself in a social setting, do it with a photo where your companions are cropped out.
As online dating coach Erika Ettin puts it: “The more information you give, the more people assume. They will assume that the person you’re with is a current boyfriend or ex.”
Everybody loves animals, right?
The same Zoosk study found that furry buddies are even worse than human ones: Including a pet pic in your profile lowers your contact rate by 53 percent.
Non-traditional animals might be even worse, as the folks of Tinder Guys with Tigers reveal. You might think that you’re pretty special for having hung out with this wild feline, but if the blog is any indication, tiger guys are a dime a dozen.
Which brings us to our next point …
Whether that’s skiing, cooking or public speaking, having at least one activity-driven photo is a must. If that activity is going to Machu Picchu or seeing the Eiffel Tower, however, you might want to think again.
Much like the tigers, some travel destinations are so common among millennials that they’ve lost their glamour, making you only just as interesting as the next guy or gal.
“Those are the cliche pictures because they’re so overdone,” said a 34-year-old Washingtonian who has been online dating for eight years.
But it’s a tough line to walk, because, she added, a London telephone booth photo could prompt a match to say: “Oh, I’ve been there too!”
Well, think about how aesthetically similar those Machu Picchu pictures are: Everyone who’s
While a shot that says London but doesn’t say “I’m exactly like everyone else” allows you to be well-travelled but not pretentious about it.
According to OkCupid, if users disagree about whether a woman is attractive – that is, if there are people who find her both beautiful and ugly at equal rates – it works in her favour.
A woman who gets mixed attractiveness reviews on OkCupid receives more messages than a woman who is generally considered to be attractive.
Almendares says this is because “highly polarising women” may be regarded as “diamonds in the rough.”
But since you can’t control whether your look is classic or controversial, there are other ways to apply the “beautiful, but not too beautiful” philosophy: Avoid selfies, because most people know they can distort a face to make it look more attractive than it truly is.
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Just don’t say we never warned you.